Dating Forums

[uplana]

It always gives me a good laugh when I see a movie that has people who met via online dating, and then that same night have sex. I've never done that on a first date (with someone I met online or otherwise) and I vote against it, esp. if you want something longterm.

Thoughts? Sex on the first date. Yes or no.

[andrew25]

I don't usually support having sex on the first date. Esp if both parties don't know each other well. However it still depends on the individuals and its their decision in the end..

[Josy]

No, otherwise it would not be a date, it would be a bootycall.

Maybe there's love at first sight, but I don't think there's sex at first sight lol

[themermaid]

Personally, I would never jump into bed with a person at the end of a first date. However, I guess there are many people out there who think it is kinda cool to have sex with a complete stranger irrespective of the health risks involved. I would definitely say NO to sex on the first date. I would rather get to know the person better first.

[uplana]

[quote="themermaid"]Personally, I would never jump into bed with a person at the end of a first date. However, I guess there are many people out there who think it is kinda cool to have sex with a complete stranger irrespective of the health risks involved. I would definitely say NO to sex on the first date. I would rather get to know the person better first.[/quote] Its important to be aware of the risks of having casual sex on your first date. Not just health risks .. cuz a guy who is willing to drop his pants without knowing your first name, is never going to be faithful.

[lavern]

Big NO! Sex on first date, do you really know the person your having sex with? That would be the worst decision in your entire life if you allow it. Better be safe than sorry.

[Johny]

I think sex on the first date is the quickest way to ruin a possibility of a healthy relationship. If sex is your main goal that is OK but otherwise it's just not that smart.

[pikachu619]

[quote="uplana"]It always gives me a good laugh when I see a movie that has people who met via online dating, and then that same night have sex. I've never done that on a first date (with someone I met online or otherwise) and I vote against it, esp. if you want something longterm.

Thoughts? Sex on the first date. Yes or no.[/quote]