How To Flirt Via EmailBy datinggirl On July 8, 2009 Under Featured Article, Free Online Dating, Profile Tips
Flirting in person can be much easier than flirting with someone you don’t even know via email. When you find someone you’ve been corresponding with through emails, it can be hard to be flirtatious with sight unseen. There can be subtle flirting if you have a way with words but what about those who don’t think they have it.
In the beginning you’re searching for someone to connect with on CupidMarket or maybe someone has found you. You engage in some small talk through emails but how does someone know you’re really interested? If it’s just general conversation and small talk happening, the other person may get the impression that you’re just both typing for the sake of it. This is where a little bit of flirting never hurts!
First off, flirting doesn’t mean implying anything about sex. Remember, you’re both just learning about each other and anything too forward is a sure way to hear goodbye. A sure way to add some flirtation into your emails that implies that you are interested is to keep it relevant in what the two of you are writing about. Being genuine and friendly in your approach is good here.
For example, if you are both chatting about what each of you are doing for your summer and she’s mentioned that she loves gelato, pay attention! There is nothing more impressive than knowing someone is paying attention to what we are saying. That goes for man or woman. There is nothing worse than having to repeat yourself by re-typing in the same information that was already said in previous messages.
Now if she mentioned she loves gelato, you can suggest in your next email that if she agrees, you would like to meet her in person for gelato if it’s really got something over ice cream. Flirting doesn’t need to be aggressive. When you approach it in a way that can make him or her laugh, it will surely make an impression.
The key to flirting through email is with words that will make him or her smile. You cannot use eye contact or body language with your message but you can certainly have a way with how you are interacting with your messages. Try to place yourself in the receiver’s end of things when they open up your message. Are you just being friendly for the sake of it? Are you wanting to chat further with this person because you find them interesting? Do he or she know your intentions? Are your intentions genuine?
Don’t write anything crude and rude to your potential interest. That’s a sure way to get blocked and reported to admin. Keep things real and just be yourself. Think about how you flirt with people in person. Your personality should show in your messages and can certainly be written. If you’re not really flirtatious in person and perhaps shy, subtle approaches just by remembering what he or she has said will work with a little smile emoticon is great.