How To Find Your Soulmate OnlineBy Merrill On December 16, 2009 Under Dating Tips, Featured Article
Technology is great! It enables us to do things in a much more expedient way. We can shop online, order food, and meet our soul mate. There is virtually nothing you cannot do. Despite a few skeptics, a lot of people are turning online to find true love, and it is working. Now you see commercials advertising online dating, and stating that you can find love online. With today’s fast paced lifestyles, no one has time to even meet people through our conventional ways like the bar scene or other avenues, so they are turning to online dating to help them find love, and fast. In the end, online dating has turned out to be a great way to find love. Here are a few tricks to help you find your soul mate online.
The first word of advice is all about numbers. There are millions of people using online dating so you have a large audience. This is great because you have many more potential people to talk to, but it is also harder because you have to go through… every fish in the sea. Therefore you should try to talk to a lot of different people so that you can find the few that spark a flame in your heart.
The second point is that you need to put a lot of effort into your online dating profile. This is what the people on the other end are going to see, and it is like a first impression, which we all know just how important those are. Try to be as detailed as possible without boring the readers. Tell the world what you want out of this online dating experience. That way there is no reason why anyone should be playing mind games or misinterpreting your intentions. IF you are looking for your soul mate, then tell them that. If you are looking for a fling, tell them that too. You can add pictures, and beware of what ones you are putting up there. Do not give misrepresent yourself by putting up a picture of you skiing when ten seconds later you quit, and vowed that you would never ski again.
Thirdly, you should think about subscribing to a online dating site. Rather then just trying out the waters in every single one, pick one that you really like and stick to it. That way you will not get bogged down with trying to keep your online dating organized, and you can focus on finding the right person to connect with. Also, sometimes you cannot utilize all of the online features if you do to subscribe.
Fourth, keep your standards realistic. Do not shoot for some supermodel when you know they are out of your league. Be real, and pick people that you really think you would hit it off with. Look for people that you have something in common with, and that you could see yourself dating. I am not saying downplay your standards, because you may miss out on a great person when you thought they would be out of your league, but be fair, and real.
Fifth, do not bash yourself. Have some self confidence, and express it in your profile, and through your conversations with friends. No one wants to date a downer, or someone that cannot find something good about themselves. You need to give them reasons to date you, not reasons to not want to talk to you. Once you establish a relationship with the person, then you can show them those little things you hate about yourself, but until then hold off on it.
Finally, make an effort online. Do not just treat it like a hassle, or like a sloppy second. Put an effort into it, and you will likely see better results. The more of an effort you put int he more you will get out of it. If you are not a serious online dater then be up front about it, because then you are not wasting peoples time who do put an effort in and expect the same in return. Time is valuable for people so take that into consideration online.
So there you have it, all the secrets you need to know about how to meet your soul mate online. Take a chance on love by diving into the virtual dating scene, and hey if it does not end up being for you then you can stop whenever you want. Good luck.