Free Online Dating - Inappropriate First Date Conversation TopicsBy CupidBoss On April 13, 2011 Under Dating Tips, Free Online Dating
Now that you’ve finally got the girl of your dreams from our free online dating site to say yes to a date with you, you may be searching around for things to talk about during dinner, or wherever you decide to take her on that all important first date. You should have plenty to talk about while getting to know each other over drinks or a meal, but you also need to understand that there are just some topics that you should avoid like the plague. Following are a few topics that just aren’t going to endear you to women or make them want to see you again:
Body Issues: It’s usually a good idea to avoid talking about body issues you may have going on at the time. For example, you don’t want to comment on how much gas you’ve had all day and go into any detail about the noxious fumes that have been surrounding you. It’s also a good idea not to mention that your prostate was swollen when you got up that morning. Sometimes it’s just a bit too much information.
Sexual Issues: You don’t want to touch the topic of how long it’s been since you last had sex. That just makes it look like you’re buying her dinner so she’ll have sex with you. Also, this just leads into talking about WHOM the last person was, and the circumstances surrounding that, and on and on. Women don’t want to hear about all of that.
Her Body: Please don’t tell a brand new woman you’re dating that she has a “nice rack” or a “great ass.” While this may seem like a compliment to you, it should be considered that this is a FIRST DATE. She may not know you from Adam and here you are looking at personal parts of her body in an intimate way.
Your Body: One of the most inappropriate things you can discuss on a first date is the size of your penis. That may go along with the above Sexual Issues but it’s also a totally different topic. So resist telling her all about your enormous manhood, even if you DO have something to brag about. If you see more of her, she’s likely to find this out all on her own.
Your Car: Unless she’s really into cars, it’s not a great idea to spend the evening discussing what’s under the hood of your latest vehicle. You don’t want to put her to sleep, do you?
Sexual Conquests: Avoid telling her how many women you’ve had sex with over the years. You’re either going to depress her or annoy her. Either way, you won’t impress her.
Your Awful Ex-Girlfriends: This isn’t encouraging to a new woman. If you spend too much time talking about how horrible your exes are, she’s either going to think you have no taste in women or she’ll be wondering if you’ll be talking about HER like that in the future.
There are many other topics to avoid on a first date, but these are at the top of the list. Have fun dating!